Some days ago, Tania Llasera was a mother for the second time and he wanted to share the moment so sweet that he is living with his thousands of followers through social networks. But the presenter, who is often criticized for her "haters" every time she talks about her motherhood, had to face again cruel comments from those who believe that giving birth by caesarean section makes her less and worse mother.
Tania, who has always been characterized by her freshness in speaking and her absolute openness, has not hesitated to make it clear that "She does not feel worse mother for having given birth by caesarean section". And is that the comments that some people are able to make, can be really hurtful.
Of good and bad mothers
I was going to upload a photo of my daughter since it is her birthday today but the comments of my previous photo have irritated me, and I do not want her face to be associated with the following I will say: I AM NOT LESS / WORST MOTHER for having given birth by caesarean section. I AM NOT LESS / WORST MOTHER for choosing to bottle feed. I AM NOT LESS / WORST MOTHER for hiring the services of a night nurse / Salus. I AM NOT LESS, NOR WORSE or BETTER MOTHER than you. For health reasons, I CANNOT give birth vaginally. For health reasons, I SHOULD NOT GIVE CHEST (and still gave her colostrum to immunize her). For logical reasons, I want to sleep and be 100% for my 2 children by day, in addition to recovering as soon as possible from an operating room operation as important as a C-section. And by the way, the only qualification as a mother that matters to me is that of my children and my husband. It saddens me a lot and I think it's a delay that at this point I still have to give these explanations. Women owe each other more credit and respect for each other as mothers. I'm the mother of Pepe and Lucia, period, and now I'm going to give another bottle to the most beautiful thing I have. #Soylamejormadrequepuedoser #madre #mami #maternity
A shared publication of ⚡️Tania Llasera⚡️ (@taniallasera) on Sep 12, 2017 at 9:02 PDT
In text that accompanies this photo published by Tania on her Instagram account, responds to the criticisms and comments that some of his followers they left in another previous photograph, in which the presenter shared the last moments of her pregnancy before undergoing a scheduled caesarean section.
That photo gave rise to a verbal struggle between his followers: on the one hand, those who defended that Tania had given birth by means of a scheduled C-section and on the other those who criticized this practice and made her feel less and worse mother for it. And, incidentally, criticism also arose for wanting to hire a salus, and for not opting for breastfeeding for your baby.
Tania is a public figure and that is why these types of criticisms have more visibility and impact. But unfortunately, getting into other people's maternities is not something exclusive to her, and once all mothers have felt the subject of comments, criticisms or free trials by those They believe they know your children and their needs better than yourself.
"Do you still give it a tit? I should eat" real food "! - they told me constantly when they saw me breastfeed my daughter
"But are you going to breastfeed again? He's teasing you!"
"Oops, as you sleep with your son in the same bed, you won't get him out of there until he goes to college!" - Typical phrase that all the parents we collect have ever heard.
"You will have to think about removing the diaper, which is too old to continue wearing."
"Let's see if you put the batteries and give a little brother to your son, who is already very old" - I began to repeat insistently when my son turned three years old, and despite knowing that he had had up to three consecutive abortions .
"But where are you going with another ?! You're crazy! With how bad life is!" - I was known by acquaintances and strangers when they saw me pregnant with my third child.
And it could go on and on, because unfortunately, the motherhood of others and the way of raising each family causes a great spectacle in others and people love to comment on it.
The rage that these things personally give me, is that this kind of such hurtful and offensive comments, be said without any shame and in a moment of absolute vulnerability of the mother, as is the postpartum, where the hormonal revolution, lack of sleep and, sometimes, low self-esteem can shake your own decisions.
No one is better or worse mother for giving birth in one way or another, for breastfeeding or bottle feeding, or for collecting or sleeping in separate roomsEach family must choose their path and act in the way in which all their members feel comfortable with the decision made. Because, if something has taught me motherhood is that no two equal ways to raise and what works for one family, another may not work the same.
Therefore, from Babies and More, we wish that both Tania Llasera and any other recent mother, enjoy your motherhood, convinced and happy of your decisions, and without the pressure of absurd wars and unsolicited opinions. Why Every mother is, for her son, the best mom in the world.
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