I I can't stand the crowds. The bustle overwhelms me and unknown people bother me that they take too many trusts. And there are babies who are also less sociable than first and get nervous if many people ride a fuss or catch it. For these children and their parents, Christmas can be a time of special tension and my Christmas advice today It's for them. And it is clear, I like arisco children.
It is difficult, sometimes, to make friends and family understand that your son is distressed if there is a lot of noise, loud conversations, fuss and hustle and bustle. It can also be difficult to explain that the child is not rude if he is more shy and does not like to be kissed and caught by people with whom he does not trust or has established a solid bond no matter how much they are of the same blood.
The first thing is to explain it. Not all people or all children are equal. There are children who start crying if there is an atmosphere of noise or excitement, and even more so if dinner is too late or if someone discusses loudly those controversial issues that may arise at the table.
Nothing happens if your son doesn't like crowds. It is not bad that a child needs to go to sleep at eight and will catch a tantrum if we force him to be at the center of the party. Nothing happens if your son is affected by the fuss or an excess of people becomes nervous.
And, of course, the child does not have to be so happy if anyone takes him in his arms and makes him laugh if he doesn't want to. Even more so if there are many more people in the family reunion than the child is accustomed to treating or if they are familiar to those he has never seen. You don't have to kiss anyone if you don't want to. And he has the right to be shy and have his own pace of socialization and temperament.
Of course, if the baby cries when you take him to see the Three Wise Men or the Cavalcade, a direct house, you should not force him to have a bad time. If you love it, great, if you are scared, then nothing happens.
I am not going to talk now about the comments about the tit, that the child is in love, the one that has to be in the car and not in the arms, the pacifier or anything else with which some parents find themselves arguing unintentionally in the Christmas dinner or, worse, enduring someone making unpleasant comments to the child.
Me Christmas advice for baby parents who can't stand crowds is that you remember at all times your priority: your child has the right to be understood and respected. And if those around you are somewhat hard to understand, put before your child's needs, tranquility and happiness, that looking good and social conventions.
